Ask the person to say (and ideally sign) that they want you to be their main contact and what information you can be told.
Write a short signed note or letter, dated and signed by them.
Health services usually rely on the patient’s own instruction to share information.
Include in the note:
Patient’s full name
NHS number (if known)
Statement: “I authorise [Your name, phone/email] to be my main contact and for health and social care teams to share relevant information with them.”
Date & signature
(Source: Patients Association)
Have a “Main Contact Pack” (printed and digital) ready:
Patient’s details (full name, DOB, NHS number, address)
Your details (name, relationship, phone, email)
Signed consent note (from Step 1)
Your photo ID (some trusts will ask)
Copy of any registered Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) (Health & Welfare or Property & Affairs)
Contact the GP practice (phone, email, or NHS App if available).
Ask them to record you as the main contact/next of kin and note that the patient has given consent.
Hospitals often check GP records for contact details.
Sample message to GP:
Subject: Please add [Your name] as main contact for [Patient name, DOB/NHS no] Please record [Your name] — Relationship: [ ], Mobile: [ ], Email: [ ] — as the main contact for [patient name]. The patient has signed a consent note authorising information sharing. Thank you, [Your name]
(Source: NHS England Digital)
On admission, or before an appointment, give your details and the signed consent to admissions or ward staff.
Bring photo ID and LPA paperwork if you have it.
What to bring:
Signed consent note
Photo ID
LPA certificate (if registered)
GP and social worker details